If you have not heard about Christian Grey, then you're probably living under a rock. The Fifty Shades uproar that took the female population by storm has baffled a lot of men - although the sex that you have been getting when your lady was reading this intriguing trilogy is not so bad.

Why are women so engrossed with the great Christian Grey? Gents, pay attention. Here are 5 things you can learn from the Fifty Shades of Grey phenomenon.

1. His undivided attention and sexual desire for Anastasia.

Here’s the thing – no matter how much women play it cool when you eye a chick’s ass in the mall, it’s just never going to be an easily acceptable fact. You may call it “appreciating creation” or whatever the hell you want to call it, but your lady would prefer that you ogle on her and make her feel that she’s the only object of your sexual desires.

2. His sensitivity to women's emotions.

It’s cheesy but it’s true. Sometimes women wonder if there is one single sensitive man left in the world – and if there is one, he’s going to be a king and you will be in awe of him. While women have not found this precious gem yet, try being one yourself and be extra sensitive to women’s emotions.

3. His thoughtfulness in showering Anastasia with gifts.

Not saying your gifts should be as extravagant like the Audi R8 that Christian Grey gave to Anastasia – although women would not mind getting that too – but women appreciate getting surprises and little gifts from you. It’s not so much as the value of the gift but the thoughtfulness of the gesture. She likes to think that she was in your thoughts when you were not together, and that is going to be reciprocated well.

4. His knowledge about foreplay and sex.

The most compelling thing about Christian Grey, even if he is a fictional character, is that he is really good with sex. He is generous, he is patient, he is a guy who actually wants to see his woman in mind-numbing pleasure and takes his own pleasure from seeing Ana come undone. With Christian Grey and sex, no stone is left unturned when it comes to giving satisfaction. He may be fictional, but he definitely knows his way around sex and foreplay.

5. His vulnerability.

Women love Christian Grey because inside all the tough exterior and manly demeanor is a troubled and vulnerable child who really just needs understanding and true love. He is powerful and strong in his career, but he is needy and clingy when it comes to love, and that is a perfect combination to make him the most eligible “fictional” bachelor out there.

You might hate to admit it but yes, a fictional character has outdone your romance techniques in many ways you can imagine. Think of this trilogy as a bible to women's deepest desires. You can actually learn a thing or two from the alluring Christian Grey.

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