According to a study published in the Journal of Sex Research, 68 percent or seven out of 10 women faked an orgasm for variety of reasons. It could be due to too much pressure to enjoy real sex, to speed things inside the bedroom, or to make their partners feel good.

Here’s the thing: this could spell a problem for you since it is hard to tell whether your partner is really having a big O or pulling off a Meg Ryan stint.

Don’t worry. Here are signs that will tell you if she’s having it for real or not.

1. She’s putting on a show.

Fact: orgasm, by definition is not sexy. However, if her expressions, sighs, and movements seem to be harmonized instead of spontaneous, then she might be putting on a show just to let you see that she loves what you do even if she doesn’t.

2. Orgasm comes out of nowhere.

Another fact: women need more time before they reach orgasm. Apparently, few minutes from the time you took off your clothes and she climaxed all of a sudden. If this happens especially when she is not that wet and barely sweating, then you have the right to raise a brow. This could be her way of saying that she wants to get the deed over with.

3. You don’t feel any clench or tightening.

Whether your man down south or fingers are inside her, you will notice a different kind of “setting” if she is about to come. You will feel some tightening or a bit of shaking followed by heavy panting, hardening of nipples, and sweating. If she screams for your name without any clenching down there, then you know that she is merely faking it.

4. She starts to give you the silent card after her “Big O.”

When you orgasm, your body releases oxytocin, also known as the cuddle hormone. The same goes to women, which explains why she tends to reach out for some cuddle session after sex. In case she lies down quietly coupled with pursed lips, then you have a problem. If she would rather be quiet than make a comment on how the sex went, then it’s because she didn’t orgasm.

5. She focuses on words, not the feeling that comes with orgasm.

There’s nothing wrong with being loud inside the bedroom. In fact, it is normal. However, if she is exceptionally vocal, wild, and noisy (think: Forgetting Sarah Marshall movie), then it might be because she wants you to think that she is having fun.

6. The obvious signs are missing.

Aside from clenching or contraction, here are the other obvious signs that a woman had orgasm:

• Increase in breathing pace and heart rate
• Tightening of the abdominal muscles
• Sweating
• Tension in her muscles
• Increased sensitivity

If these signs are missing during her alleged “climax,” then you know what you are getting into.

The best way to reverse the situation is to encourage honesty. Ask her what turns her on and comply with her demands the next time. Be the man and make her feel what real orgasm is all about.

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