Things are starting to seem “conventional” inside the bedroom. Fine, you enjoy your sexy sessions with your girl, but admit it. Sometimes, you just want more.

Then you came across role-playing and became eager to try it. After much contemplation, your partner agreed to it as well. The question now is how do you do role playing during sex sans the awkwardness?

Here’s how.

1. Establish the plot.

This is the first thing you need to do when you decide to role play. Figure out and talk about your fantasies, then decide on what you can do first. You may start with the traditional like teacher-student or doctor-patient. Once you are able to figure out your fantasy, make a role play map to guide you in the process.

2. Get into character.

Now that you established what you will do, it’s time to get into character. You can check out online stores or even sex stores to get your costume. If it’s too much, a quick look in your cabinet will do. The point is to make your character look more realistic and believable. After all, a wardrobe change adds fun in role-play sex.

3. Set the scene.

Aside from the wardrobe change, setting the scene could also help in the success of role play sex. Still, you don’t have to renovate and transform your bedroom completely and turn it into a classroom or doctor’s clinic. Still, a desk or a stethoscope could spell a difference.

4. Talk about limits.

This is important. You may lose yourself during the process that you tend to forget how she feels and vice versa. You might not notice that she is uncomfortable too. Before you start with role play, it is vital that you establish some limits first. Don’t forget to come up with a safe word to remind each other it is too much.

5. Practice talking dirty.

This may not be your forte, but the truth is talking dirty could be useful during role play. However, you don’t have to be raunchy and a bit disrespectful. Dirty talk can still be descriptive, romantic, instructive, and character-based. Say something like, “I’m gonna enter you the doggy style” or “How do you like the taste?” instead of “Get down on your knees, you slut.”

6. Have fun.

After all the planning and setting the scene, make sure to have fun and just enjoy the experience. Playing pretend – the sexy version – is fun. Don’t be afraid to laugh, be silly, and make mistakes during the process. It is part of the experience and something you can learn from the next time you decide to role play.

7. Just do it – now.

Yes, just do it not tomorrow, not next week, not next month but now. The more you prolong, the more awkward you will feel when you finally decide to do it. Just do it now and you’ll be surprised with how much it can do to your relationship.

So, are you ready to do role-play with your ladylove? Make sure to keep these tips in mind when you finally do.

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